Friends and Family - They're Worth More Than Gold!
Have you ever dreamed of winning the lottery, or looking at a rainbow, wishing there really was a pot of gold?
Isn't if funny how money can do strange things to people, relationships, and the effects it can have on our everyday lives. We've all had those days where you check your coat pockets, your ash-tray (for us non-smokers), or raid the piggy bank for a little spare change. Some have been fortunate enough to win a large sum of money, are born into money, or achieved large salaries and luxury lifestyles, but are often still lonely, unhappy, or unfulfilled?
There is one thing that money can't put a price on and that is friends and family. True friends, and close family are there for you through thick and thin, good days and bad. They offer support when it is needed, make us laugh, share a cry, and fill our lives with joy and a feeling that is priceless.
Certainly, I agree that having money is essential to enjoying everyday things in life from eating out, seeing a movie, to owning a car, or a home. However, instead of always focusing on the "what next, I wish I had, I wish I could, or the I want more", take a break to focus that energy into what is really important - Your friends and family.
If you want to truly feel fulfilled and happy, just remember, friends and family and the relationships we share with them are worth more than gold!
Women and Friendship; is it as good or better than Chocolate?
I'll start this article by admitting that I am a full-blown "chocoholic." I love the way eating a piece of chocolate makes me feel. It's so indulging, satisfying, and to me is the ultimate reward or excuse to instantly lift my spirits, calm my nerves, and just make me happy. This lead me to thinking about how few things in life are as good or better than chocolate.
Now, I would certainly have to rank being a Mom at the top of the list, but another big contender is Friendship. I think it is truly disappointing that we as women allow something as rewarding and bittersweet as friendship, to regularly take a back seat to our careers, husbands, children and busy demands of life. When you compare eating a piece of chocolate to spending time with friends, you will find a lot of commonalities…
Friendship and Chocolate are both actually healthy for us.
Friendship and Chocolate both make us feel good.
Friendship and Chocolate can be addictive and both make us eager for more.
Did you know that researchers and scientists have suggested that chocolate contains compounds that can help maintain a healthy heart, good circulation, and reduce blood clotting? And, a Nurses study at Harvard Medical school found that women with friends were less likely to develop physical impairments as they aged.
I know for me personally, whether it's a few minutes on the phone, a nice e-mail shared, lunch/dinner, or movie time spent with a friend, I am left feeling refreshed, happy, and ready to sing, "I feel like a Woman!" While I truly love being a Mom, I need friend time for me (even though half of it may be spent talking about the children anyway). It just feels great to spend time with my girlfriends to gab about everything under the sun, including love, relationships, finances, parenting, - and occasionally important topics like Brad Pitt!
Have you every noticed that when you do finally take the time to make that phone call to your friend, send that e-mail, or arrange that dinner or movie date, that you feel so good you automatically start planning for the next chat or get together. We do this because this needed interaction with our female friends just leaves us eager for more. This "feel good" addiction is similar to why we automatically eat more than one piece of chocolate in the box (and admit it, we rarely stop at just one).
I may be disqualified to judge what is truly better, friendships between women; or chocolate, since I admittedly confessed to being a "chocoholic". After all, some of you reading this article may not even like chocolate. In my opinion they are both equally fabulous. However, I do want to say if ever you needed to slow down, and purposely make time for something in your life amongst your daily juggling of activities, then please do so for friendships. Finding "friendship" time needs to be a priority even if it is once a week or once a month, to catch up with old friends and to make new ones. It's healthy, it makes you feel good, and you (we) deserve more of it.
Cheers to a happy, healthy, life shared with many great friends and of course a bit of chocolate!
Greeting Cards, Never Forget Another Birthday
Be honest not with us, but with yourself. How many birthdays have you missed this year? We are all quite busy and we even have a hard time remembering what day it is, but when it comes to the feelings of our friends and family, we need to take extra steps to remember. It happens to all of us, even those with the best intentions. So, what can you do to help yourself remember for next time? Because technology is just so great in this day and age, there are ways that you can remember one or two birthdays or even one hundred and two.
A free service for you to consider is offered on the website, www.mobileBday.com. This service is a great tool to have because it can help you stay connected to the long list of birthday reminders you probably have. By allowing you to receive instant reminders of when birthdays are happening, this service really can prove to be invaluable. The service allows you to program birthdays into it. When the date arrives of the person's birthday, you will receive a text message reminding you of the birthday. The message will show up whenever you plan for it to. It will display the person's phone number which allows you to instantly call them and wish them a happy birthday! You can also set up reminders for later in the day as well.
Again, this is a free service that helps to keep you connected with the loved ones around you. You will no longer have to see the disappointment on the faces of those you love when you forget to call. They won't feel like they are second best. And, you will not feel as if you have failed again. This simple to use product is a great way to help you to remember all of those important days. By the way, you can also use this service to program in all those anniversaries that you tend to forget as well! Come home with a bouquet of flowers on your wedding anniversary! It is easy to use, which makes it right for just about anyone who has a cell phone with text messaging service. Getting started is as simple as registering and adding those individuals into your cell.
About The Author:
S Baker is a well respected writer and recommends using http://www.mobilebday.com for sending your next birthday cards
